I have come to learn that Hostmonster.com does not support mysql for outside connections.

I have tried sourcebans and amxbans on gaming server and are unable to get them to connect to any data base's I have created. I have witelisted the ips allowed the ip access to the data bases but after weeks of work It has failed to work. I will be lookin for a provider that can handle what I am looking for as Hostmonster is not able too. All Work as come to stop at this point.